1. Companionship
2. Vulnerability
3. Admiration.
All men, and every man, wants these three things from the women in their lives, especially their wives or fiancees. Companionship is complimentary to vulnerability, as we will see.
"The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame."
Genesis 2:25
Men want the beauty of the liberty found in intimacy, summed up in the one word:
Vulnerability.
The joy of simply being free to just be!
Physically, this means affection. It means he can touch and caress and hold his wife without limitations or frustrations. This involves sex with his wife, but is much deeper. It means he does not have to hide his attraction or need of her affection. Teasing is for the immature, because they make sex a game, a means of manipulation or domination. This is not the desire of the mature man nor woman. He is free to desire her body, and her body only.
Soulically, he is free to be. He may share his thoughts, emotions, and passions with her without fear of rejection or negation. Yes, men want this! The world lies and make men seem to want one thing. They do want that one thing, but not ONLY that one thing, nor do they want that one thing for a shallow reason. (I speak of good men! Men of God!)
Spiritually, the man wants a woman who is one with the very purpose and presence of God! He wants to share the deepest things in his spirit, for them to experience the heaven on earth of union with God! He wants to experience the ultimate with her, to share his deepest longings and desires and dreams and visions that are God given. He wants to know hers as well!
Men want to give their spirit, soul, and body freely to one woman only!
They want to have the spirit, soul, and body of one woman only!
They want her to be naked and not ashamed, not afraid, not self-conscious, no wall between them. He wants this because she WANTS to give this. She wants to give this to her man because of admiration! (Click here for the conclusion.)
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